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Why it is easier to make negative comments, than to do positive things!

People who criticize often have a lot of pain to "unload" and they'll hell vent to spread out their frustration to the whole world (galit sa mundo). If you want to figure out what really bothering the critics, go ahead and ask at your own risk!

Remember lang ho! That not every criticism are aimed to you. So sometimes it pays to step back and consider the reason of your emotional outburst.

Alam nyo, it's not easy to be calm down when you are being insulted. There's no easy and sure way to do so. A dramatic confrontation ( which includes the audience to witness your shallow squabble!) often accomplishes nothing but increasing hostility.

Is there any reason why other people would want to hurt someone's feelings? Kaya sometimes I don't really understand why some people gustong manira or sirain and buhay ng may buhay.

A lot of criticism stems from the critics' preconceived idea that other person is not good enough and can't do the job right better than her/himself. But if you're confident in your capabilities and sure of your self, why doubt just because someone says otherwise?

The right way is to show them what you can do and accomplish it, and critics might even become your fans: ha ha ha ha hah nakakatawa!
Sa taong magagaling or nagpapagalingan dyan, he/she should realize that no matter how good he/she think are, si Perfecto lang ang tanging perfecto sa mundo. Lahat tayo hindi Perfecto, sa pangalan man at sa pagkatao. As the saying goes: " You can't please everybody".

Whether one agrees with the opinion of others or not, is something that all human being should have to learn to respect. We have the right to free speech, but remember that it goes with responsibility. Let us not hide our bad intention behind anonymous excuses, but we can use to make our lives and those of others better.
So before you even open your mouth or get a pen to write and lash wild verbal tirades, first of all ask the question: "Would you want them to say the same unkind words to you"?

Be patient and understanding but nevertheless, don't allow others to pull you down with their unreasonable criticisms without defending yourself. To defend however is not necessarily to fight like a wounded Lion or Tiger, but just appropriate and depending on the situation.
And Lastly, be thankful to the people who sympathized and supported you when you are at the thick of the action.
In this juncture, I would like to say Maraming Salamat po sa lahat ng tumatangkilik at nagbigay ng lakas ng loob sa aking pagsisikap na maging makabuluhan ang aking buhay kahit na nasa banyagang bansa. Mas lalo akong nagkalakas ng loob and I'm entitled to be happy, because I am trying just to be myself and doing good things.
"No matter what they say, I'll manage, I'll carry on" ö